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Temple Profile

About Us
More than 165 years old, we are a congregation that takes our own independent path. We strive to be faithful to the teachings of the Torah, to be dedicated to the acquisition of Jewish knowledge, and to be committed to the well-being of the Jewish people in America, Israel and around the world. We are one of the largest historically independent congregations in the country.

With an innovative religious school and a vibrant pre-school, Temple B’nai Abraham is an energetic center of Jewish life in Livingston, Short Hills, West Orange, and neighboring communities. Our membership is multi-generational, dedicated to the synagogue, and committed to the social values and actions with which Temple B’nai Abraham has historically been associated.

Our congregation has approximately 875 member units, including individuals, couples and single and dual head of household families.  We welcome interfaith and LGBTQ families and individuals.

The religious backgrounds of our members, many of whose families have been part of the congregation for generations, range from secular to Orthodox.  The many couples who came to their marriages from differing Jewish or secular backgrounds find we offer a welcoming, comfortable middle ground.

Religious services and practices reflect an egalitarian respect for tradition, relevance to time and place, creativity, and musicality. We offer an extensive adult education, music, and lecture program to members and the community. We are well known as a public forum, where political candidates and other public figures from across the spectrum educate our congregation and the community on issues of current concern. Our teen and adult tikkun olam programs serve our most vulnerable populations locally as well as in the broader New York City area.

Mission Statement
As a congregation: We are an extended family that offers connection, compassion and community for all.

As a synagogue: We worship God with joy, humility and meaning, maintaining our own rich traditions as we perpetuate those of our faith.

As members of a global people: We strive to manifest our dedication to Israel and fellow Jews everywhere in ways that instruct, influence and inspire.

As partners in an eternal covenant: We teach, share and practice the timeless values of Judaism to make a difference in our lives, our community and our world.

Who’s Who
President: Dr. Bruce H. Greene
Chair of Rabbinical Search Committee:
Julie A. Silbermann

Senior Rabbi: Clifford M. Kulwin
Rabbi: Faith Joy Dantowitz
Cantor: Jessica Epstein
Executive Director: Gail Milchman

Member units today: Approximately 875
Congregation founded: 1853
Current building constructed: 1973

Erev Shabbat
Tot Shabbat
Shabbat Morning
Parashat HaShavuah
Two days of hag are observed.


Lifelong Learning
The Early School
Director: Debbie Ziering
Ages: 12 months to 5 years

Jewish Learning Program
Director: Melissa Weiner
Grades: kindergarten to 7th grade
We have 2 b’nai mitzvah most Shabbat mornings.
We have an active high school program and Teen Tikkun Olam Group.
BBYO meets at our Temple once or twice a month.
Kesher Connection provides outreach to more than 200 college students.

Adult Learning
Family Mission to Israel
Congregational Trips

Get Involved
Early School Parents’ Council
Jewish Learning Program PTA
Men’s Club
Prime Time

Over 2000 congregants attend High Holy Day Services.
The social hall can accommodate events for more than 300 people.
The Conservatory is a meeting and event space for approximately 150 people.
Our beautiful patio and gardens are used for services and celebrations.

B’nai Abraham Memorial Park
Located on Route 22, Union, NJ.


  • Temple B’nai Abraham has benefited from strong clergy, professional staff, and lay leadership for many years, resulting in stable and robust membership and school enrollments.
  • Rabbi Clifford M. Kulwin is only our fourth senior rabbi in almost 120 years.  We are proud to have enjoyed long-term rabbinic leadership.
  • We are financially strong with ample fundraising, sizable endowments, and no debt.
  • The Temple’s youth education programs are dynamic, active and very successful starting with our Early School and continuing with our Jewish Learning Program.
  • We are located in an area with a large Jewish population that continues to attract young, Jewish families and provides us with stable membership.
  • We have a sizable, committed congregation that is dedicated to the synagogue, a large, hardworking group of lay leaders, and lively Temple groups, including Sisterhood, Men’s Club, Prime Time, Social Action Committee, and others.
  • Our building is attractive, well-maintained, and offers a variety of flexible spaces that allow us to host a range of events and religious services.
  • We have many multi-generational member families.  We value our rich history.
  • We have sufficient resources to provide Temple membership to those individuals or families with financial need.
  • We are independent of the various synagogue movements, which allows us to evolve as we deem appropriate and continue to meet the needs of our changing Jewish community.

Looking Ahead
The successful rabbinic candidate will be a visionary and a team builder, with demonstrated successes in creating dynamic relationships and strong congregational participation, blending tradition with modern liberalism in religious services, congregational activities and pastoral roles, and with the skill and drive to lead and grow a sophisticated suburban congregation in the 21st century.

We seek a proven inspirational and motivational leader whose creative approaches and practices have combined traditional and contemporary motifs and modalities to:

  • Foster a strong sense of community for the congregation as a whole and for peer groups.
  • Offer participatory religious services that draw growing levels of attendance.
  • Supply pastoral care and congregational counseling as needed.
  • Effectuate congregation-wide awareness of, and action in response to, global, national and local societal issues.
  • Provide rabbinic contribution at all levels of educational activity within the congregation.
  • Unambiguously and affirmatively welcome all who seek to share, explore, establish or maintain Jewish experiences.
  • Create a cohesive professional team at all staff levels implementing shared goals and objectives.

Senior Rabbi Position Date position is available: July 1, 2019
Curriculum vitae or resumes of interested candidates are now being accepted.
Please contact the Chair of the Rabbinical Search Committee: Julie A. Silbermann  Email:

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